Over the years I have had an informal discussion and experience with spoiled women.
A friend of mine asked me recently if she was spoiled.
Well, there are different degrees of being spoiled.
The not-so-bad version I would define as accustomed.
Women become accustomed to certain things and don't want to go back to bullshit. But these women are for the most part self-sufficient.
But then there is the bad case when they are enabled and feel the sense of entitlement to any and everything.
This is today's will focus - the enabled and the entitled.
There is this one chick that I have known for years that simply believes she is the girl, she controls everything.
But when this Burger King (cuz chick think she can have it her way) chick thinks she can say or do whatever she pleases with men because she thinks men should cow tail to her assiento because she has cat power.
MANLAW states that this sort of behavior only works with boys.
In fact, it does as said brat is with someone much younger than her and has no job.
But at least she has control of this dude.
Poor dude needs to be baptized under the power of MANLAW and rid himself of this disease.
So the brothers must seek out this dude and free him like the many others we will free in this forum.
MANLAW.
11 comments:
I'm Bossy! (In my best Kelis voice)
Seriously, I spoil myself, therefore, I expect to be spoiled. As Skinny said, I am accustomed to certain things and I'm not settling for BS. My personal motto is "Roll wit it or roll out"! If you can't meet or exceed what I can do for me, what do I need you for?
To answer any of your questions: Yes, I will spoil my man in return :)
That's because when a guy gets a woman who is not boogie, spoiled, un-diva-like they don't know what to do with her or how to appreciate her.
mystified, i wish you was next to me because i'd give you a pound and a hug...
i have a theory about men and bitches -- i.e., spoiled chicks, bossy chicks, etc.
y'all can't get enough of those ho's. maybe not you skinny G, but those women are able to attract terrific men because men, sometimes to their detriment, like women who are challenge.
now some dudes, as you pointed out, are just weak as hell.
but the rest of them, seek out bitch-bossy-spoiled girl because they think they can tame her. it's no different than a woman trying to calm a wild guy.
I LOVE THIS BLOG...
Dynasty, sing it sister!!!
Mystified Lady, hit it right on the head!!!
In the respect of this blog and what my boys are trying to do...I am going to assume that J isn't calling me a BITCH or HO! She's trying to make a point...even if it is laced with haterade and jealousy.
What blows me is how easy it is for men to come together, but women try to tear each other down. It's a sad day in blog world.
If you don't agree with the way I choose to live my life, treat my men or speak my piece...Get over it! But, don't disrespect me because your shit ain't that fly! Note that all Bossy-Spoiled-Bitchy women ain't nice and wasn't born with a silver spoon in their mouths. I took mine out the mouth of the last Dumb Ass that disrespected me.
***Back to positive blogging***
I am accustomed.....i can and do for self but a little help goes a long way I expect to be treated like a princess, have doors opened for me.that kinda shit..and i do throw temper tantrums..but they are cute
Dynasty, I don't think she did, I hope not, like you said we gotta stick together us women, thats why men feel they can do us like they want, cause they know we have no unity, respect, or loyalty amomgst one another. There's nothing wrong with being spoiled cause you can spoil yo damn self. Everything I own, I got it myself, without my parents help, or any niggas help. Everything I own, I got it legally without disrespecting myself or my intergrity in the process. So you would expect a man to be able to handle his shit and at the same time do for you what you can't do for yourself....but in return, you not golddiggin, cause you would spoil yo man if he so deservers....
Don't kick up no dust over here now....*lol*
Nsane: You know that's not even my style...I settle dust that's been kicked.
I linked this blog to mine because I thought it would start interesting conversations. I didn't expect to be called out my name because my opinion or behavior differs from the next. I respect people and their perspectives in blogland and I expect it in return. We're all adults. The last thing I want to do is get in a pissing contest with a woman on a man's blog... How uncouth..LOL! So, my bad if it hit a nerve...
If there is in fact no harm, then no foul...Let's continue with the engaging conversation...
you know what, dynasty, i owe you an apology. i didn't even read your comment. i was just responding to the blog post.
and no, i was not referring to your type. i was referring to the entitled type, which is different from the i-treat-myself-good-cuz-i-should type. my bad, G, i wadn't tryin' to hate.
the entitled broads are the worst, and those are the ho's that ain't working for what they got, expect the world from men they meet, but got $2.58 in their checking account...i see a lot of men attracted to those type of women. or the bitchy gals. i just hate to see good bruhs being dogged out. but then again, some of it is on them, too.
Thanks J, I appreciate you letting me know that. It's all good in the hood. I was perplexed and taken aback...but, it's water under the bridge.
I'm glad thats all cleared up!
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